It frustrates me to know end that people are against the teaching of abstinence. Their defense is that children are going to do anyway if instead we should be teaching about birth control. I agree that birth control should be taught, but abstinence is birth control.
There is absolutely no way of getting pregnant if you're sober. Other methods sometimes fail. We must also be teaching girls What a gift "has to offer and wait for someone special who wants to be committed arrives. Not really give away the gift of the first boy who said: "I love you." Most teenagers will have sex because they think they will be together for a long time. Have the discussion with the boys and girls present and finding the definition of a "long time".
The girls are surprised to discover that a boy, a long period of about six months to one year. Guys will be surprised to discover that a girl, a long time is never. When asked if a girl knew that when we go into a sexual relationship the guy would only be about six months to a year she had sold her virginity to him, more than likely the answer would have been " no '
Adolescents must also seriously discuss the "What Ifs" of pregnancy. Young guys tend to be more ready to see the same adoption or abortion as an easy option to handle the problem. " Young girls were obviously more an emotional bond to be growing within them and are less likely to see one of these as an easy option after pregnancy has occurred. Young guys should be aware that this connection exists. It will come for them later in pregnancy or after birth.
The thought of pregnancy should be a little realistic fear to prevent pregnancy. To keep teens from getting pregnant, we need to teach young people how to be responsible, to be responsible for their bodies, with lives they affect in May, and the life they may possibly create. Encourage your teen to buy a dog if they want something to love unconditionally
Teach them the responsibility for feeding, walking, earn money to pay visits to the vet, and etcetera. If an adolescent is unable to care for a dog, ask them how they will always be able to take care of a child. Encourage your teen to participate in extracurricular activities. There will be less time to worry about finding a boyfriend or girlfriend. Encourage your teen to find a job for the same reason, but to really start planning their future. Plan for college. Plan for the labor market. Then ask: "How can a baby fit into those plans? Strengthen accountability to self and abstinence.
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